Walk Worthy of Your Calling
At a men's breakfast the speaker opens with his own life - his work in renovations, nearly fifteen years of marriage, and the long, painful road to his children, including the loss of two babies before God gave them a son. From there he calls every man to walk worthy of his calling (Ephesians 4:1), unfolding four spheres God entrusts to us: to serve, to work, to be a husband, and to be a father. On serving, he insists that calling unfolds step by step, so we must be faithful in small things rather than chase position. He gives three signs that God is calling us to a ministry: it fits our personality and gifts and feels natural rather than a burden, it bears fruit that blesses others, and even after burnout God keeps rekindling our motivation, like the fire shut up in Jeremiah's bones. On work, he reminds us that God made us to labor, that profession and calling are not opposites, and that a believer can serve God just as truly as a doctor, nurse, or businessman as from a stage. Turning to the family, he urges husbands to love their wives sacrificially, tracing love from eros to storge to philia to agape - the self-giving love Christ showed at the cross. Fathers, not only mothers, carry the weight of raising children, and a present father shapes them for good. He closes with a sober warning drawn from men who served God powerfully yet lost their families: guard the balance and stay faithful exactly where God has placed you.